I USED TO JOKE that I spoke French like a 3-year-old. Until I met a French 3-year-old and couldn't hold up my end of the conversation.

'French resistance' took on an entirely new meaning as my brain repelled every strategy I employed. Yet my failure was in fact quite unremarkable. Advertising claims notwithstanding, few adults who tackle a foreign language achieve anything resembling proficiency. In the end, though, it turns out that spending a year not learning French may have been the best thing I could've done for my 57-year-old brain.

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